Hope I haven't lost the one I love.

[Drill for life]

I have had a bad day. I was a at church today and my girlfriend was across the room sitting next to this guy. I thought okay no other seats and as time went by he started talking to her and touching her so by now I was furious. I kept it cool and did the Soundbord for Childrens Church. I finsihed that and talked with her sister about how I felt and we talked real in-depth about how she like to be surronded by guys(I don't think she shoul dbe surronded by al these guys I should be the only guy who should surround her is me). I went down to our Singles Luncheon and ran into her and we talked and I told her I was through with her and in comes the guy she brought and they leave and go eat. Here I am fuming mad as H$%^ and she walks off with the guy I am mad at. I go outside to calm down and I come in and I am ready to beat the crap out of this guy, I sit down drink some tea and calm down. I go outside to swing the little kids on the swings and I just fell at ease. I walk inside and I find her and we sit down and talk. I fell like everything is alright. I drive home and go to work. I get off and my mom is in the car and she says that my Girlfriends mom called and told her how my girlfriend was crying because she was frightened of me. I love her so much and I don't want it to end so I called her mom to talk with her mom and she picked up so we called and she told me she would call me after the movie is over. I love her and I don't want it to end, she is the best thing that has ever happened to me(except the Marine Corps) I don't know if I could live if we didn't speak. Pray for me.

[armysc_25b]

I for one don't believe in high school relationships, way too much drama involved. I let my guard down to that belief for a year, and lemme tell ya it was the most stressful year of my time in high school. You have other things to worry about, and at your age love isn't one of them.

[Drill for life]

You are right but you are wrong to, you are not me. I am concerned about this now but not so much like I am going to kill myself. I just love her and want her to be happy.

[navytrooper]

Try to talk to her about your feelings. Make sure you don't sound hostile at all (don't say "meet me HERE at THIS time"), and explain to her how much she means to you and how you just want her to be happy, and say sorry about frightening her, and (if she really doesn't want to be with you) just say that you value her friendship, and that if she doesn't want to be with you, ask her if you guys can still be friends. Good luck...I feel for you...

[Drill for life]

Thanks, we are probaly still going to be dating this wile probally just bring us closer togehter.

[StarLifter]

Dude, saying you don't want her around other guys is taking a very controlling position, which is actually a sign of a potentially abusive relationship. You need to relay your concerns without trying to put restrictions on her, and have a little bit of faith in her ability to be faithful.

-- StarLifter

[soccermark23]

You are way to young to be worrying about this, the majority of these young relationships in high school don't last. People have to go their separate ways and get out on their own and experience life. I think we all had that so called 'young love' during our youth, but once you grow up and go find yourself you'll probably realize that it was just sort of an adolescent fling type deal.

[Drill for life]

I feel real sad, I have just been crying. I never cry I didn't even die when my Papa and my best friend died and her I am crying over pictures of the girl I love. What is wrong with me?

[StarLifter]

Originally Posted by Drill for life

I feel real sad, I have just been crying. I never cry I didn't even die when my Papa and my best friend died and her I am crying over pictures of the girl I love. What is wrong with me?

Something called hormones.

Don't go defining your life based on others. As was mentioned earlier, it's a high school relationship. Go out, do something fun that you enjoy, and get your mind off of your troubles.

-- StarLifter

[Drill for life]

Well I broke up with her today. I am so sad and I dno't know how I am going to feel. I need to find a new date to the Cadet Ball.